I doubt all marriages without formal ceremony are done out of shame. If you want this formal ceremony we can have one but I don't think it necessary.
[Reading the rest of this he thinks on it for a moment before responding.]
If his contract said that he had to obtain permission then he would have informed me. Since he didn't that implies that there is freedom for Fenris to do as he wishes. It will be up to Fenris to decide what the best course of action is.
As for this conflict you have faced, it seems perhaps that is a matter between you two. I don't feel it has any weight to this matter.
[And he refuses to treat Fenris like a Submissive. He's a person.]
[And he really, really doesn't want to have to deal with this. He is worried about the potential conflict of The Iron Bull's authority with the Nie Sect, but having to deal with any of that sounds so awful that Huaisang would rather avoid the whole thing.]
Forget the ceremony, then. He has our approval. That's all that matters.
[So this is a personal matter. He's been wondering about that this whole time. Well, that's between Huaisang and whoever this Dominant is. He won't step in.]
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[Reading the rest of this he thinks on it for a moment before responding.]
If his contract said that he had to obtain permission then he would have informed me. Since he didn't that implies that there is freedom for Fenris to do as he wishes. It will be up to Fenris to decide what the best course of action is.
As for this conflict you have faced, it seems perhaps that is a matter between you two. I don't feel it has any weight to this matter.
[And he refuses to treat Fenris like a Submissive. He's a person.]
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[And he really, really doesn't want to have to deal with this. He is worried about the potential conflict of The Iron Bull's authority with the Nie Sect, but having to deal with any of that sounds so awful that Huaisang would rather avoid the whole thing.]
Forget the ceremony, then. He has our approval. That's all that matters.
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So you are alright with no ceremony?
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[He'll get a cake.]
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I will leave preparations of that to you. Let me know when we will gather and I will be there.
[Look. His brother is better at planning that stuff than he is.]