I don't mind the rudeness so long as he's obedient. [Which he was, mostly, for Huaisang.] Yes, I thought about putting a command in place about how long he had to keep them in, but I decided to let him fuss.
If he chooses to interact with me, I will insist--as I did--that he be polite and gentle about it. And anything that I do to him in order to get him to heel--as with the braids--will be something that soothes him and gives him pleasure.
If you're going to speak to me, I'd appreciate it if you spoke to him. You know how hurt and defensive I can get when people are rude or dismissive toward me.
[Can you feel the pouting through the device? There's pouting.]
Yes, certainly. I'll do that promptly. I can't promise PERFECT results - you have far better manners than he does - but I think I should be able to convince him to be a bit more understanding and agreeable.
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The rudeness goes away a bit as he gets to know you.
[...Not entirely though.]
You know, I THOUGHT I saw him for a moment with braids in his hair.....
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Yes, I thought about putting a command in place about how long he had to keep them in, but I decided to let him fuss.
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I realize he can be very frustrating but please try not to toy with him too much? For my sake if nothing else. I care for him, you see.
I know you don't mean any harm, of course, but he's been through....quite a bit.
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If he chooses to interact with me, I will insist--as I did--that he be polite and gentle about it. And anything that I do to him in order to get him to heel--as with the braids--will be something that soothes him and gives him pleasure.
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He's had someone in his life far less considerate about this sort of thing than you are. I just worry about the associations he might make.
I'm not saying that you have to let him be rude without comment or action, of course. Just...be careful.
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It'll be up to him, anyway. I have no intention to seek him out. [Huaisang likes his lovers a little more eager to eat from his hand.]
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Thank you for listening to me, though of course I knew you would.
I really am sorry for his rudeness. Past and future. Please let me know if you'd like me to speak with him and I'll see what I can do.
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[Can you feel the pouting through the device? There's pouting.]
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I can't promise PERFECT results - you have far better manners than he does - but I think I should be able to convince him to be a bit more understanding and agreeable.